Christmas Eve Party @ Zicra!

Every Chirstmas I would prefer to avoid crowded places as I hate to squeeze with people. However, this year one of my friend suggested to go clubbing for countdown. We usually go The Arena but I insisted to go some new place as the age group there is quite old and the songs are not that great too. I wanna see some young hunks and pretty girls around my age group! hahax. yes yes, I do look at girls as well. hiak hiak. Initially we queued at Rebel but it was all the way till the taxi stand hence we gave up after 1 hour since the queue was moving too slowly. So we ended up at Zicra. 

We were lucky to reach 15mins before the countdown and 3 of us decided to open a bottle of Johnie Walker as we wanted to have a table. 

Think back, we were really crazy. 3 ladies to finish the whole bottle and it was not cheap! $268 + $34 cover charge. Hard core drinkers. lols. 

Sok Min and Yin Mei

Yin Mei even bought a christmas hat for us!

Getting High~ hahax

I have quite a sexy leg here huh~ lols!

 And they took these pics while I'm at the toilet! =(

Overall it was quite a fun experience and it sort of activates my craving for clubbing! Now is the prime age and status(being single) to have fun!!

Friends Come and Go

Everyone have friends but to find one who will always be there for you be it rain or shine, it is really difficult. I am quite an introvert and do not open up to people easily. I do have a bunch of good friends but never did I ever have a best friend, a person whom I can share and do everything with. I know it is a matter of choice, whether you are willing to open up to people but because I know the sad reality that friends come and go, I'm skeptical of opening up to people.

In recent years, I thought I found someone who is able to melt down my defensive heart. During these 8 years, she had done quite alot of stuffs for me, for example, making handmade album and video for me during my birthday. But I never really do anything for her as I'm never a creative person. Therefore, this year during her birthday, she treated me to the universal studio and I did a photo album with 50+ of her photos from child to adulthood. In addition, I personally delivered the present to her house at 12midnight on her birthday. I hope this will be able to compensate her for what she had done for me in the past and it was also a day where I officially regarded this person as my Best Friend For Life(BFF). Previously we had some misunderstanding and was in cold-war for like more than 6months. In the end we managed to settle things out and I thought this will made our friendship stronger than before.

However, I was proven wrong during my birthday. Some people said that the birthday wishes that people post on facebook walls are the most insincere type of wishing someone. I do agree to a certain extent but it never failed to make me feel touched when I see people whom I have not contacted for ages actually take the effort to post a birthday wish on my wall. Since it is the most insincere type of birthday wishes, of course this BFF of mine did not leave a message on my wall, however did not I hear anything from her as well. 1 day after my birthday, I received a facebook message from her. I thought she was going to wish me a belated birthday. It turned out that she wanted me to help her to buy her pageant tickets as she was behind quota. Ok, the pageant thingy was a school event and its her cca thus she needed to sell the tickets. Can you imagine how disappointed I was? I'm not a person who value birthday alot but I do at least hoped that my so-called-BFF would say a happy birthday to me. 

I didn't reply that facebook message after that. 2 days later, she posted this on twitter 

"I am a horrible friend! I completely fgt abt my BFF/ 11 yrs childhood friend's birthday till 3 days later @hui_jing! Happy 22nd:)".  -(fyi @hui_jing is my twitter user name)

and the "best" thing was, she said she'll give me a treat after 15dec which was after her pageant event. I know she was really busy for the event but if me, is so-called your BFF, I think no matter how busy you were, you will at least meet up for a simple dinner. Thats not all. The next day, I received a sms from her. So I thought that might be an apology message or something. But no, it was once again, her plea to persuade me to buy her pageant ticket. Now its already 21st dec, her event is over and I have not hear anything from her. I thought, "ok, she might be busy" but I was proved to be wrong again as her twitter and facebook were all about meeting up with her CCA friends. The sad thing is, this simply proves that she don't feel bad for forgetting my birthday at all and she just can't be bothered.

Initially I wasn't really that pissed off until I put herself into my shoe, meaning if I were the one who forgot her birthday, she would definitely blame me for the rest of her life as she was a person who values alot about her birthday. I can only say that I am utterly disappointed with her and there is nothing I can do or will do because its meaningless now. I will forgive her but I'll never forget this incident.

Am I being too petty? I don't know, I need to vent out my anger somewhere and I'll be fine again. Anyway, I will still continue to learn to open up to others because you never know, your potential friend might be around you at any time.

"When someone leaves the door, leave it open for someone else to come in."

Thank You For the Mini Celebration!

My dear friends held a mini birthday celebration last Saturday(10/12/11) for me. I'm a very impatient person as I'm usually the one who was late. So I cannot stand waiting for people. What kind of stupid logic is that, i know! Initially I was pretty annoyed as I waited the both of them for 30mins. But the moment they reached, they took out the fake flower, a cake with a wide smile and said, "happy birthday! we went to buy these for you!". As if it was magic, all the annoying feeling was gone instantly. But I know thats a trick so that I can't scold them because I know leo chin too well. lols!

Dinner was at Astons @ The Grand Cathay. My cousin came to join as well and we had a great time laughing , chatting and cam-whoring. Looking at the pictures, I can only say, my friends really 很爱演!! hahaha!

Leo and Xiu Xuan acting cool~

Take 1: Trying to woo a girl

Take 2: woo with a open mouth

Act 一个 emo

Got my-sassy-girl feel anot. lols!

Leo said that he have became muscular ever since he entered NS. When xiu xuan and I doubt his words, he immediately asked us to take a picture of him showing his muscle yet wanna make it not-obvious that he was showing his muscle. How annoying~  LOLS

Not that we wanna discourage him, but there isn't a "mouse" in sight.

He find that picture to "unnatural", so he requested for another picture and this time, acting like he was being gentleman, giving me a flower and at the same time showing his "muscle". Super vain and smart!!

Even Xiu xuan couldn't take his vain-ness.

Finally time for cake cutting!

Make a wish: Give me health, money, beauty and good results!!

Quite like this pic. hee.

The cake was totally too sweet and we gave the leftover cake to the Astons staffs. They were like so happy! Because their manager didn't want to give us plates for the cakes, we specially mentioned that no cake should be given to him. lols.

Huge Christmas tree outside plaza singapura.

Thanks for the lovely dinner. Though its just a short and simple dinner but it was filled with laughter. I really appreciate it. =D   After that, I left the both of them to have some time alone as I need to meet up another group of friends. I'm a very automatic person. 

Another stop, marina baragge. My friends bought two different cakes(Choco and Cheese) from supermarket for a change. 

Sok Min and Yin Mei

Ping Hong, Terry and Wyman

Group Picture: peace sign failed, somehow e angle make it look like I was pointing middle finger.  -_-

Sok min said that my face looked damn cocky. lols. Well, personally I think it showed a sign of happiness within me. Happy that they actually take the effort to have a small celebration for me.  No need big presents or glamorous party. This is good enough. Thank you! =)

Not forgetting sok min who treated me Haagen Dazs fondue and the board she made for me! Gratitude can't be expressed in words. <3